Love.. what is love? A lot of people shared their views to what Love really is, or at least what Love is in their eyes. Perhaps love is just an illusion. A strong illusion, especially for those who are searching for a purpose of life. Is love an answer? Love can be wonderful, special, complicated, a distress, a gift, a curse, a tragedy, and most of all, an experience.
Love is a mysterious and a complicated force. What do a person mean when they say they love someone? Love is many different things. Each of us have our own understanding of Love is, and most of the time we base our definitions from feelings and experiences. The book defines love in many ways. "It is a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties." It can be an affection and tenderness felt by lovers. Love is the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration.
Just when we thought we finally grasp what love is, somebody asks:
"Does anyone really know what 'LOVE' mean? I believe I have a true love, but 'True love' is always hurt, isn't it?"
I scratches my head with this thought and began to wonder. What is the answer to this? "This I have to know!" I said to myself. I looked in the mirror and asked "Is it a true love when you know you want to live with this special person for the rest of your life? Have we reached 'true love' when we are ready to give everything away towards our subject? or maybe when can go as far as to sacrifice ourselves for our love? What
"But isn't love suppose to be an obsession? If it is not, then you'd have to rationalize. If you rationalize then it's not love, because there is always a better rationalization."
"I think the "in love" phase is obsessive but according to Williamson (and backed up by my paltry experience), love does not involve the ego, is selfless and the opposite of obsession."
According to Marriane Williamson, the author of "A Return to Love," there is a "holy love" and a "special love." "The latter type is the obsessiveone; finding that one 'special' person absorbs ALL your attention."
So who is right and who is wrong
"Love is not thinking
"Our hearts are created to Love." -E. Atienza
"Love is like a roller coaster, it has ups and downs."
"Love doesn't make the world go around, Love makes the ride worth while." -unknown
"Money will buy you sex but not Love." -Simon Vainrub
"The more you cry for the person you really love, the more you can understand real love." -Tsuchida Tomomi
相关单词：distress
distress解释：n.苦恼，痛苦，不舒适；不幸；vt.使悲痛
distress例句：
Nothing could alleviate his distress.什么都不能减轻他的痛苦。
Please don't distress yourself.请你不要忧愁了。
相关单词：attachment
attachment解释：n.附属物，附件；依恋；依附
attachment例句：
She has a great attachment to her sister.她十分依恋她的姐姐。
She's on attachment to the Ministry of Defense.她现在隶属于国防部。
相关单词：admiration
admiration解释：n.钦佩，赞美，羡慕
admiration例句：
He was lost in admiration of the beauty of the scene.他对风景之美赞不绝口。
We have a great admiration for the gold medalists.我们对金牌获得者极为敬佩。
相关单词：obsession
obsession解释：n.困扰，无法摆脱的思想(或情感)
obsession例句：
I was suffering from obsession that my career would be ended.那时的我陷入了我的事业有可能就此终止的困扰当中。
She would try to forget her obsession with Christopher.她会努力忘记对克里斯托弗的迷恋。
相关单词：obsessive
obsessive解释：adj. 着迷的, 强迫性的, 分神的
obsessive例句：
Some people are obsessive
He's becoming more and more obsessive
相关单词：paltry
paltry解释：adj.无价值的，微不足道的
paltry例句：
The parents had little interest in paltry domestic concerns.那些家长对家里鸡毛蒜皮的小事没什么兴趣。
I'm getting angry;and if you don't command that paltry spirit of yours.我要生气了，如果你不能振作你那点元气。
相关单词：ego
ego解释：n.自我，自己，自尊
ego例句：
He is absolute ego in all thing.在所有的事情上他都绝对自我。
She has been on an ego trip since she sang on television.她上电视台唱过歌之后就一直自吹自擂。
